Privacy

Have you ever been in a situation where u were hanging out and having your girls talk with your girlfriends and out of nowhere, their boyfriends showed up and joined u?

Or,

When u were on a date with your boyfriend and his friends were there too?

I bet yes. Coz I've been in that situation too and I tend to not like it. Sorry to say.

I dont mean to be rude but seriously guys. Do u have to be there when your girlfriend were having fun chit chat - ing and gossip - ing with her girlfriends? I mean, u will get bored eventually coz u're so not gonna like what u are going to listen. Oh well, thats y we called it as 'girls talk'. U are a guy. Would u sit with us and listen to our conversations? Listen to what we are up to, which shoes we're gonna buy, what are we going to wear and all stuff like that. Would u? Oh come on. We do need our own moments. Without u interrupting us. And that's privacy.

You would be feeling the same thing when u walk into our shoes.

Just imagine u and your friends were hanging out, having some drinks and talking about cars, girls, footballs and your girlfriend was there, sitting together with u and your dudes. R u gonna be okay? Is it comfortable for you when your girlfriend tend to know everything about you. Every single thing u've been discussing with ur friends. Mesti korang pun ada your own 'men's talk' moment kan. And u sure dont want us to know or getting ourselves to be part of that. Right? So do us.

U know, there are things yang kita x boleh share dengan semua orang. Its not about being secretive or what, its just that we do have our own things and problems yang patut kita share dengan our own friends. Girls especially. Guys dont seem to understand when it comes to girls having problem.

Its just, we're different.

So please. Think bout this deeply. Its not that we dont want u guys to hang around with us but sometimes, we need our alone moment :)

P/S : This has nothing to do with my personal life. Just pointing out my views :)