Love?

Love. What is best to define love? U may define it yourself sebab its all up to u.

As for me, love is not all about the feeling of getting loved or to love others. Its like, we as the human pun mainkan peranan penting. Love is nothing without trust. How can u be in love with someone that u can hardly trust? Can u? No for me.

For some people, love is the most happiest, the most sweetest thing. But yet, love can also be the most painful thing. It may kill you softly. Its all about the emotions, the feelings of giving love and taking the love. X kisah la if its between u and your boyfriend, your family or even your friends. Hati and perasaan is not something yang kita boleh control. Kadang2 rasa sayang and cinta akan datang dengan sendiri nya. And kadang2 rasa bosan, rasa benci pun akan datang dengan sendiri. Susah nak cakap. Memang soal hati dan perasaan di luar jangkaan kita.

Sometimes, we plan for something. For sure la we are hoping for the best kan. Macam2 kita buat just to make it work. But yet, bukan kita yang tentukan semua tu. Kita boleh rancang macam2 benda dalam hidup and kadang2 kita excited, tapi tuhan yang tentukan semua. Suka atau tidak, kita terpaksa terima dengan hati terbuka. Lumrah kita sebagai manusia. Syukur la dengan apa yang kita ada. One can never satisfy and please others as she wished.

Love is also nothing if just one side ja yang buat semua benda. It will never work la. Kena ada kerjasama. They should have some "give and take". Yalah, kadang2 masing2 ada ego sendiri. Masing2 x mau kalah. But at the end of the day, it will just make it even worst. If tiada yang mengalah, macamana benda nak setel? Betul kan? Even if kita tau tu bukan salah kita, y not sekali sekala kita just mengalah. If tetap juga nak eras kepala, sampai bila pun benda xkan jadi baik.

Another thing is, the time will heal everything. Kadang2 we just need some time to be alone, to think whats best to do. Its better to remain silence than terus argue kan. Korang x penat eh? We jsut buat apa yg mampu and leave the rest. Let time yang tentukan semua. There wont be any regret u suda buat the best.

Have u ever feel like u wanna have a rest and do things on your own? Yeah i do. Memang kadang2 rasa penat sangat. But then, still rasa berat sangat sangat untuk lepaskan apa yang ada. I've been thru it for like years. How can u just let them go just like that? Its just so complicated.

Haihh nta la. Its all depends on us juga kadang2. Whatever it is, lets just pray for the best. Allah lebih mengetahui apa yang terbaik untuk kita.