What a girl wants?

A girl is definitely different from the boys. A girl is more delicate and fragile as compared to the boys. People tend to say yang girls sangat2 demand, fussy, too picky and all but yet, u guys dont even know what's inside the girl. Its like, perempuan nampak lemah secara luaran but dalaman, we might be even stronger than the boys. Believe it. Perempuan lebih penyabar and easy to forgive but anything yang happen, wont be out of the head easily. Its quite hard for a girl to forget the things that ever happen to her. We don't really hold grudges against someone, but yeah. Benda tu bukan senang untuk dilupakan.

Sometimes the guys x faham and senang2 ja lepaskan marah and cakap perempuan x faham. But the fact is, lelaki faham ka perempuan macamana? Those yang in a relationship, kadang2 the boyfriends cakap the girlfriends tu control queen, tiap masa sms tanya buat apa, dekat mana. Okay maybe the boyfriends rimas and rasa macam suffocated kan? But the truth is, the girlfriends just care for you guys and want you to be around them cause they think the boyfriends can make them happy and the boyfriends are like the girls "comfort zone". Get it?Its not that we, the girls want you guys to stick with us 24/7. We are not even married. Kalau mcm tu, semua org pun lemas wehh. Tulah, we're just, COMPLICATED. Yeah, that's the word.

So, back to the topic, what does a girl really wants in a guy?

#Give attention

Lots and lotsa attention. If you give a girl the kind of attention that she wants, she'll almost certainly start liking you. Yeah trust me. Whether the attention is just a poking fun, saying hello or even teasingly throwing rocks, it usually seems to work. It doesn't matter.

#Be clean

Oh yeah. Ini sangat2 la penting okay. Its a routine for a guy untuk exercise, working out semua tu. But. you should always be NON-SMELLY! Its a big TURN-OFF if the smelly guys starts flirting with the girl. Its a big NO. But still, its never a good idea for you to be a neat-freak. Just a bot of rumpled hair or a half-tucked shirt is fine.

#Groom yourself

As long as you look presentable, then it's fine. Don't obsessively flick your hair out of your face or check your reflection in a mirror. Girls don't really like that. You don't have to be perfect all the time. You are a guy anyways. And don't think its cool to take your shirt off. Most girls actually find them gross. I repeat, GROSS. Oh here's the tip, if they avoid looking at you with your shirt off, kindly please put it back on! You are creeping them out!

#Be a little smart!

You should also graduate and at least college la kan. Sebab, if you are smart, you will also probably want the smart type of girls kan? Well, you don't have to be super smart, just get decent grades or decent work. Perempuan selalu think out of the box. Future I mean. If you guys teda kerja, camana mau kawin?LOL

#Lotsa communications

Girls like it when you say Hi or ask how they are doing. Sometimes, they wont ask you back cause they are too shy but that just the way they are. Girls like it when you go to them and ask for their opinions on something. As for those yang in a relationship, a text really really made her day! Kadang2 that bole jadi moody but just a simple text from you bole buat kitorang senyum sampai telinga. Korang apa tau? Perempuan dapat text yang pendek pun bole jadi angau tau. Hihi :)

#Don't be a jerk

Haaaa ne pun penting. A jerk, a loser and sewaktu dengannya. Please la jangan jadi gitu okay? Kamu ingat perempuan suka lelaki yang poyo semacam and cakap besar? Please. Awal2 lagi da kena black list. Sama juga dengan guys yang suka kacau orang lalu lalang especially perempuan. Korang dah takde kerja lain ke nak buat? Bawa2 la insaf. A little friendly teasing is ok but nothing more.

#Touch

Ha ha ha! Jangan fikir lain pula. Jangan la pegang over pula. What I mean is some girls like to be touched. You can tell if they do by touching their hand lightly. If they pull away, don't try again, at least not for a long time. If they tense up, they're not ready. If they touch you back or look pleased, you know they're liking it. Kalau mau rasa tamparan wanita, cubala lebih2!

#Be nice

Bukan semua perempuan suka the "bad guy" type. If they seem like a "bad girl", they usually like that type. If they aren't, they're probably after a "nice guy". But don't be a goody-two-shoes. Girls don't like to be told their wrong unless it's necessary.

Roughly, itu la yang perempuan mau from a guy. No one is perfect but x salah if kita mau someone yang bole buat hidup kita perfect and complete :)